I didn’t realise how easy it was to waste money as a mum until I actually looked at what we were buying. Honestly, the costs just sneak up on you. One minute you’re grabbing something because “everyone else does,” the next you’re wondering why your bank balance is looking so sad. At first, I didn’t question those purchases, it felt like just part of being a mum. But once I started paying attention, I spotted a few things that I could easily stop buying without missing them one bit.

Now, I’m not saying these things are bad or that you shouldn’t buy them if they work for you. This is just what I personally stopped buying and what helped me save money while keeping things practical for my little ones.

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Baby Shoes Before Walking

I used to think baby shoes were adorable and a must-have right from the start. But the truth is, before babies start walking, shoes are pretty unnecessary. They’re mostly for looks, and babies often outgrow them faster than you can say “cute!” Plus, many of those tiny shoes are uncomfortable or just never get used properly because babies aren’t really walking in them yet.

Instead, I stuck to soft socks or just went barefoot indoors, which, fun fact, is actually great for babies’ foot development. When we were out and about, pram suits or cosy booties did the job without breaking the bank. It saved me from buying a dozen pairs of shoes that sat in the cupboard.

Fancy Outfits They Wear Once

We’ve all been there; buying a cute outfit for a special occasion or photoshoot, only for it to get worn once (or sometimes not at all). Those fancy little outfits are often not practical for everyday life, and with two kids, I quickly learned that comfort and durability matter way more.

Instead, I focus on simple, comfy basics that mix and match easily. Things like soft leggings, plain tees, and cosy jumpers get way more wear and make dressing easier on busy mornings. Plus, they survive the inevitable messes much better than delicate clothes.

Overpriced Branded Snacks

Snacks are a total convenience trap when you’re juggling two little ones. It’s so tempting to grab the branded, “parent-approved” snacks from the supermarket shelves, but I soon realised how much more they cost compared to regular alternatives.

Those fancy snacks often come with marketing aimed directly at parents, selling convenience and supposed health benefits. But honestly, supermarket own brands or simple snacks like fruit, crackers, or homemade treats do the job just as well, and cost a fraction of the price.